Parents pushing me to go into the military!? Help!

<p>Basically, the reason this is such an issue is my parents are like the most committed parents ever to DEBT FREE EDUCATION!! Like if there was a convention for it, they would be like the presidents of it. They’re Dave Ramseys biggest fans. But, seriously, im not jokking… They don’t believe any education is worth the debt basically. So, when I thought of the military and they realized they pay for college, there was no convincing them of anything else. My sister says that if i don’t really wanna be enlisted if only to pay for college. She claims there are enough scholarships i qualify for, why would i put myself through the military and i believed her.
Y’all say my parents aren’t able to force me to go into the military, but that’s their talent. They are like the most controlling and pushy parents ever! (not really… but close) To put it in perspective, the reasons that college is on my mind so much pretty much all being with “cause my parents…” etc. They have a talent for pushing me into things…</p>

<p>I would never go into basic and intentionally FAIL it! That’s silly honestly. If you’re gonna do something, do your best. Otherwise, it’s a waste of ur time, regardless of whether u WANT to, or not… </p>

<p>Basically, I’m just looking for how to deal with them. Like if anyone has experiences of pushy people who just won’t listen to ur side of things…? Thanks y’all!</p>