<p>Tell them “You first”? They can’t force you to join the military, although I guess you could make sure to spectacularly fail in basic. Seems like a few ppl I met that signed up for ROTC didn’t make it and just continued as college students. Or just keep saying no until it sinks in. </p>
<p>I think though you should really not rely on what a couple people tell you either for or against and do some research. Find out about specific career paths and if you’re qualified, and if enlistment will actually help pay for college more so than the typical route of career > pay off loans.</p>