<p>And it isn’t necessarily helicopter parents failing to teach kids to leave the nest. Some kids are just like that and it’s really hard to change their nature, push them beyond where they are at developmentally in executive function stuff. I have another younger one who is polar opposite. Changes his sheets, cleans his room, remembers doctor appts himself and reminds me. Goes out to buy his own bodywash and cologne. Reminds me to buy things we are running low on. Tells me when he needs a haircut. Chases me around to leave house on time. Makes food himself if noone is around to serve him a meal. Brings papers to get signed, etc, etc. Raised in the same environment but a different brain.</p>