Penn State - Schreyer Honors, Georgia Tech, Purdue or Alabama for Aerospace Engineering

If you can afford it, I’d take either PSU Schreyer or Purdue.
Both are high opportunity/high reward and are the best value for money.

Purdue is higher ranked, has strong industry ties, and places especially well throughout the Midwest including Chicago, as well as nationally. Lots of internship&co-op opportunities.

PSU’s alumni network is very, very strong (“cultish” has upsides) and places especially well on the East Coast/Mid Atlantic, Boston to Pittsburgh, NYC, MD, PA, DC, Virginia. Schreyer is one of the best Honors Colleges in the country; it offers excellent courses (freshman 137-138 is superbly designed to be intellectually challenging and exciting), residential experience, and outstanding opportunities. If she chooses Schreyer, she could apply for Global, which is a hotel-like dorm section where students participate in “international news&culture” events. If she’s interested in international news, international actions, etc, it’s a great option because it’s like an honors-within-honors living learning community, hence, instant friends.
If she’s shy, I’ve been impressed with “Leadership jumpstart”, an experiential/hands-on Schreyer class: students apply over the summer (basically explain why they want to join :p), have a retreat before orientation, and work in small groups. The class only has 24 people and helps students develop “can do” skills and practically going from idea to project.