<p>GFG- I promise, I recall the ruined graduation party much more than the name of the college. I was actually wracking my brain trying to recall the name of the person who HAD the grad party that was ruined that night, and he was somebody I hung out with every single weekend in high school.</p>
<p>OP: if this is driving you crazy, then say something FOR YOU. Make a big announcement, or just say something. But do it FOR YOU, not becuase it makes the slightest difference what anyone else thinks.</p>
<p>Otherwise, I’d really stop perseverating on this.</p>