<p>I keep initiating “the talk” with H. H seems determined to force ME to be the one to make the call. I think he wants to be able to blame me.</p>
<p>Thank you everyone for your kind words…</p>
<p>Consolation…How is your baby doing? I would strongly encourage that decisions like those be joint choices so that blame does not get laid. It is very easy and very human to want to blame something on someone when we have lost complete control. I am sorry you are in this situation. I hope peace is achieved through love, understanding and compassion.</p>
<p>So happy for the wonderful outcome! Having been in your shoes (exactly!), I know what relief you are feeling. There’s nothing better than a warm fuzzy fur friend.</p>