<p>I disagree. Pursuing women makes you look desperate. Rather than attracting, you will be repelling them. And if a girl doesn’t show any interest in you, why do you want to waste your time pursuing her? Don’t you respect yourself enough?</p>
<p>I disagree. Pursuing women makes you look desperate. Rather than attracting, you will be repelling them. And if a girl doesn’t show any interest in you, why do you want to waste your time pursuing her? Don’t you respect yourself enough?</p>
<p>No it won’t. It will show that you have balls and have probably been with women before, maybe often, and that you aren’t desperate. The desperate one’s are the one’s too timid to approach women, and women know this.</p>
<p>I never said anything about pursuing women that show no interest in you. But you have to make a -move- to see if she is interested and then choose to advance if they do.</p>
<p>It’s rare for a woman to approach a man. Guys pretty much have the choice of making the first move or being alone.</p>
<p>Man im the king of balls. Cold approach every single day. Thats how i roll. East side ballas. Word.</p>
<p>Don’t pursue. Just think in your mind if any of your friends have ever pursued a girl after she indicated she wasn’t interested. Only in extremely rare cases are these men successful. You have to portray yourself as the needed commodity. Think of it like a sales pitch, which do you want, the Volvo with the charming salesman or the BMW thats a little out of your price-range. Right, the Beemer. Now go make yourself the Beemer my man!</p>
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<p>That post couldn’t be any more flaming if you doused it in gasoline and put it into the path of a blowtorch. Thanks for sharing that you’re a master of testicles and that you enjoy cold approaching east side ballas because that’s how you roll.</p>
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<p>If you’re a Volvo you’re not going to fool anyone by trying to masquerade as a Rolls Royce.</p>
<p>You can always get a body kit/ new chassis</p>
<p>leah, damn, u missed the EURO trip!!! haha</p>
<p>vacationing together is COMMITMENT. commitment is extremely hard for me haha.
he looked good and was a genuinely nice guy, but there was nothing going on upstairs (plus, he wasn’t that good in bed, most likely because of the drugs or possibly a lack of natural skill).</p>
<p>also, there’s a difference between shamelessly hitting on women and showing them you’re interested. definitely be respectful, but not to the point that she doesn’t get the message.</p>
<p>so leah, playing the guitar and singing the sea of love by cat powers on the first night is okay right?</p>
<p>maybe for the first date you should compose your own song for her instead!</p>
<p>omg omg how lovely.
actually i have done that for like 3 girls. the first one was a friend that i kind of liked but i only did it because she asked me to, the second was when i fell hard for a girl, although i never told her about it. the last time was improv but i wasnt interested in her. </p>
<p>how about composing a song for a girl who you never met in real life but enjoy her responses on cc? thats way better than composing it on the first date.</p>
<p>So basically, i need to grow a third ball and take some more consideration into approaching girls more often during times when it seems to be a non-tense situation and just be myself.</p>
<p>very clique, but thank you guys for the inputs ;)</p>
<p>ANOTHER QUESTION: How do you pick up chicks at the mall?</p>
<p>Thank you for helping me out =) Much appreciated</p>
<p>oo thats a hard one. ideally you should make eye contact with here, if she gives you a smile or any other indication that she is interested, go up to her and say hi, introduce yourself, say something flattering and ask her out. you dont have to say something flattering but it would be weird if you go, hi my name is basshunter. want to grab a coffee with me? unless you are hot.</p>
<p>more like hi my name is basshunter. i couldnt help but notice your smile. would you like to have coffee with me sometime? or something like that.</p>
<p>its hard to do the cold approach unless you’re at a party, and that is not the ideal place.</p>
<p>what would you say girls?</p>
<p>by the way, this has become the new dating… thread. hahaha.</p>
<p>Try some PUA approach techniques at the mall. They actually work if you know how to pull them off.</p>
<p>I find PUA approaches ■■■■■■■■. Its like common sense. </p>
<p>And since Easy requested that I report my dating scheme; it was a success. She is about a 7.5 I’d say, but I have really high standards which are almost impossible to obtain. I digress.</p>
<p>I was planning on asking her to breakfast but she talked about going to some other place on her way home so I was like Nooo!!! But then I asked her, when I was walking her to her car, if she wanted to do something this weekend. And then she invited me watch a movie with her. Depending how this one goes, I shall or shall not ask another girl out next week who is more attractive, but honestly I dont really care. It aint easy being a pimp. kidding.</p>
<p>sighhh…i want a boy to write a song for me. i was actually discussing this with my girlfriends like two nights ago haha. my boyfriend is not musical. he could like…write me some HTML code or something though (whatever that means) hahah</p>
<p>a.) breakfast is a really, really cute date in my opinion.
b.) walking up to random girls at the mall is probably not the best idea. i don’t think i’d be too receptive, unless the guy was super adorable. maybe if you’re in a store and you make some casual, witty smalltalk and THEN ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. i love when i’m out somewhere and have like a mini-connection with some guy because we had the same sense of humor and had a little bit of banter going…</p>
<p>*ANOTHER QUESTION: How do you pick up chicks at the mall?</p>
<p>Thank you for helping me out =) Much appreciated*</p>
<p>I don’t know if I’d ever do what lethargy suggested. Eye contact, then an introduction, then the question… seems pretty awkward and formulaic to me. In any situation you need a conversation starter, which really depends on the situation (for example, a real, actual player that gets more hot women than any of us probably ever will once saw a girl reading her agenda on campus and just went up to her and said “so is reading the agenda the new cool thing to do?” and went from there). Maintain eye contact and maintain a good short conversation. Then somehow ask her out.</p>
<p>Doing what girls want is not the same thing as doing what will make girls want to let you stick it to them.</p>