Will you be able to go to the revisit days?
You have great schools to choose from, and if your daughter is able to attend the revisit days then there’s a good chance that one of the schools might just feel ‘right’. You’re doing all the right things in exploring things upfront on this forum. See if you can make a point to seek out the theater and debate teachers when you’re on campus.
My kid managed to go on an official tour at Hill before Covid shut things down, and was very impressed with how well organized it was (better than the HADES school tour they went on a week later!). Loomis was a last minute add for us, so we didn’t manage an in person tour.