My kids are involved with figure skating though not on a high level. I’m mostly familiar with USFS skating but what level are you on? Why don’t you think you can skate in college if you attend a college with a team. There are intercollegiate skating teams that compete from pre pre through senior level. However the teams are not necessarily only about competing.
My college daughter skates for fun and fitness and has been on a performance team skating during hockey games as well as one or two yearly college recitals (mostly attended by parents but they have fun). There are typically 3 regional competitions a year - her school goes to 2 but only those who elect to go. They have a rink on campus and have freestyle time 8 - 10 hours a week. I can also tell you many admissions people commented that my daughter’s.
My entering 11th grade also skates just for fun and fitness for the most part - no interest in testing. However she is on the high school team to skate with friends. My kids are the opposite though - group skating is a big favorite part of skating for them. The high school and intercollegiate skating are pretty low key and fun.
I guess the question is how are you handling all these activities, keeping up with school and grades, and having family time. If you can good but it sounds like way too much. Sometimes as much as we want doing it all isn’t good.