Everyone has to weigh these factors for themselves. As a school with a performing arts emphasis (it’s a university because of its music conservatory), Lawrence has quite a few LGBTQ+ students, and the president who recently retired was a gay man. But the city of Appleton is on the conservative side, and state-level politics have been problematic of late. I’m not proposing Lawrence as a perfect solution across all metrics, just trying to answer the more limited question of “where can a student with a 3.4UW and high need get an acceptance with a strong aid package, at a school with strong physics, music, & Chinese, and an LGBTQ+ friendly campus.” I can’t answer whether the tradoffs are worth it or not.
That said, OP has revised her GPA numbers fairly significantly.