<p>Any larger Flagship State U. in the South :-). A lot of the land grant type schools have good engineering programs and you can research the music side. I would first focus on the Engineering side and then worry about the music side. If the music minor is in performance, keep in mind the performance requirements may involve significant practice time - not an easy feat. </p>
<p>The most important question is where does the OP’s son sees himself down the road. My daughter thought about a music minor added on to her architecture major. Sanity prevailed when we realized the practice requirement for music and the studio requirement for architecture would result in great room and board savings - no time to sleep or eat :-). So she may pursue a minor in music theory and history which has more sane requirements. Despite classical piano training for 12 years, at some point prioritization needs to occur. </p>
<p>Engineering is not THAT difficult, once you get past the weed-out first and second year courses. I’d say music is more difficult as it is far more objective than subjective. Math or Physics, either you cut it or you don’t. In music, there’s a lot of gray area.</p>