Please tell me how you clean your house

I’ve had the same cleaning lady for over 35 years and when she’s unable to do it I would hire another person. I live in a 3500+sq ft house (for 40 years) and have no plans to downsize because it is all on one level. My H doesn’t do yard work and we prefer to spend money on things we don’t want to do.
My pied-à-terre on the opposite coast is only 600 sq ft. Initially, I was looking for a cleaning person but I find I can handle all the cleaning without too much problem since we don’t cook here. I’ve been here over a month and haven’t turned on the stove once. :)>- We’re surrounded by good restaurants, hot buffet in grocery store and of course seamless.com.

I suggest that you hire a cleaning person and if your H starts to help you when he retires then you can stop the service. My H wouldn’t think of making more work for me.

Four years ago, after doing all the cleaning myself for decades, I had a very ill family member in another city for whom I was the medical support person, a husband who was working out of state, and a daughter who had just become engaged and would be bringing “new” people as guests to our home for Thanksgiving. etc. So to get through this with a bit less stress, I hired a cleaning service before Thanksgiving to do a “deep clean” … and then to come once a month to get me through.
Never looked back! Since then both H and I have retired, but agree that this is one expense worth keeping. I consider it a luxury – but since I don’t spend more than minimal amounts on clothes, wear no makeup, drink hardly any wine, purchase no jewelry, etc. it is an indulgence I feel entitled to. Fortunately H supports this (as he likes a clean home with minimal work also).

So, once a month a small team comes and works efficiently for half a day in my 2,000 sq. foot home – cleaning bathrooms, washing all floors and vacuuming all rugs, cleaning kitchen counters, stove top, all surfaces, dusting, polishing, etc. They also have a special way of rearranging things so they look more appealing.
They also attractively create blossoms or other attractive arrangements on the edges of toilet paper and make paper towel blossoms for the tops of those rolls, both of which I feel are silly – but I fear if I told them not to do it they would be insulted so I roll with that. (Talk about a first world problem!)
When they are done the place sparkles and smells lovely.

The day before they come I literally mark on my calendar for “cleaner prep” and spend time decluttering and prepping so they can do the cleaning. Yes, feels crazy to me to put this day aside but some day I hope to be able to skip this step … (You know, when my act is all together and I have hubby trained as well).

H and I figure having this monthly cleaning team frees us up to work on projects only we can handle – financial planning and organization of paperwork, prepping for eventual downsizing, deciding what should go from the house and where to, etc.
It also forces us to make sure we are organized and decluttered at least monthly.

We realize we are fortunate to be able to have this indulgence. Times when we would otherwise feel some pressure (when guests are coming, hosting holiday dinners, etc.) are less stressful for us now.

Daily, we stay on top of dishes (run dishwasher almost daily, have most meals at home and we alternate cooking nice meals for ourselves and our adult son who lives at home). We try to keep the sink clean. I do occasional tidies of bathrooms using Lysol wipes.
We keep three mats in our fairly large front hall, one of which is designated a place to place removed shoes, and have a very nice piece of mahogany furniture we refer to as the “shoebox” :wink: In a deep bottom drawer of the “shoebox” we store our most frequently used shoes.
If there is any tracking of dirt, debris, etc. into the front hall I try to (have the person responsible for it) clean it up promptly.
Another drawer in the front hall “shoebox” holds gloves and hats. An additional drawer holds theater tickets, travel reservation confirmations, etc. Finally, a small drawer holds discount coupons for restaurants, etc.

I do need to work on kitchen counter clutter – need to clear some cabinet space for stuff. Right now crock pot, toaster, and several other items hang out on the kitchen counters – my improvement opportunity.

I tackle wall or baseboard spots as I notice them, with a wet paper towel and a dab of some dish detergent, or with a magic eraser.

Every month I try to make more progress towards having things in better shape.

Interesting thread. I had a cleaning person every week until the kids starting leaving the house and my husband retired and we decided to clean ourselves. To clean the house top to bottom is a 9 hour ob, but I do the upstairs one week and the downstairs the next week. My husband keeps the kitchen clean on a daily basis. Dust and pet hair is our biggest hassle plus the bathrooms. We’re just using one bedroom and the kids’ bath of course rarely gets used. With just two of us it isn’t too bad although I do miss my cleaning person every time I fire up the duster, vacuum cleaner and broom and mop!

@Hoggirl Really a place that size with just two people, you might spend a half an hour a day on house chores. Give your husband one chore every other week if you need to. Maybe he can clean the bathroom every other week. Might take him 30-45 min. I use Lysol Disinfectant wipes to run over the counter tops or surfaces in the kitchen of bathroom between cleanings. Sweep the kitchen floor everyday, maybe a five minute job. Vacuum every couple days. Perhaps hire a crew once a year for a spring cleaning. Really, with just two people in a small place, you might spend 4-5 hours a week on keep up.

You could borrow or buy Mary Ellen’s Complete House Cleaning books. Vacuum before you dust because vacuuming kicks up dust.

It helps to think of cleaning as a bit of exercise. :slight_smile:

I invite people over for a visit. The prospect of having company puts me into a cleaning frenzy. Otherwise, I just keep the kitchen and bathrooms clean, and vacuum enough to keep from getting overwhelmed by critter fur.

My sign that I had achieved success in being neat and organized ( after being very messy) was that I no longer needed to do anything to " get ready" for the cleaning people who come once a month.

@intparent Exactly. We had a condo about that size when we were first married. I was the breadwinner for the beginning years. It might have taken DH 2 to 3 hours a week to clean but he is quick and efficient. Truly not a big deal. One of the bathrooms is likely a half bath. It might take your husband 10 to 15 minutes every other week. Just two of you would probably mainly use your full bath which you clean every week. Maybe 20 minutes. Just keep the kitchen clean every night. Vacuum every few days which might take you 15 minutes. Don’t have a lot of clutter. Clean up as you go. Grab a Lysol wipe and do a quick clean if you see something.

“Vacuum before you dust because vacuuming kicks up dust.”

Or dust before you vacuum cause then the dust goes on the floor and you vacuum it up!

It’s house “keeping”–but your house doesn’t have legs and going to run away–just don’t get lost lost in the shuffle. I haven’t run into reviews of anybody’s “housekeeping” on FB yet. Probably because nobody would even dare.

Relax and enjoy your new surroundings.
Embrace your new lifestyle. The rest (including housework) will sort itself out.

@gouf78 I suppose. Your dust should be staying on the cloth though. DH who considers himself to be a cleaning expert has analyzed this and observed the particulate in the air while vacuuming. You should not be wiping away much dust if you do it every week.

@intparent - so with the dusting “mitts” do you just wipe everhting with your hands? I’ve heard conflicting things about whether the microfiber material is supposed to be put in a dryer? What do you do with your mitts?

We actually have two full baths. One is only a shower, and the other is a shower/tub combo. We’ll both only use the shower, but both sinks and toilets will get used. The tub/shower will only be used when we have guests.

Okay, now I think I need a better understanding of what a deep/spring cleaning involves. I think what I must want is something that is in between keeping things “relatively” clean and a deep clean. And, I think I want this once a week. Maybe I need to settle down - lol. I think part of it is that we have all new furnishings, paint, some new floors, new fixtures, etc. No major remodel, but it is all spruced up with new everything. To me, a deep clean is when you remove items from cabinets/closets and wipe down shelves, clean baseboards, wash windows, and move furniture around to vacuum underneath. To me, mopping, vacuuming, dusting, scrubbing showers and tubs, and cleaning toilets are things that should happen weekly. Maybe I need to rethink that.

I had thought of doing something for shoes by the front door.

As I said, clutter is not a problem - even with the downsize. We purged and purged and purged and had a living estate sale. Got rid of so. much. stuff. We go for good at the end of the month, and that is when dh retires. We anticipate a lot of company, and I think that is part of my issue. Perhaps doing a little bit each day on a regular basis but then cleaning the entire thing all at once before we have company will work.

@cbreeze - yes, I do feel like this has created more work for me. We’ve been in transition since we sold our house last April. Dh has continued to work in his demanding full-time job (we were unsure of if or when he would exactly retire), so I have done all of it since last April. I don’t work. The transitioning apartment is the same size as our retirement condo, though it only has one bathroom. I keep thinking my mindset would improve if I could get better/more efficient at cleaning. It seems silly of me to be resentful because I have to keep a house clean! As previously stated, I’ve been spoiled.

Microfiber can go on the dryer but it does not like fabric softener, either liquid or dryer sheets.

Except for the first month of our marriage (39 years ago) I have had a housekeeper. My mother always had a housekeeper. We have had live in for 14years (when our kids were little)…Now once a week and a major clean bu a company once every two weeks.

I would love to say that I am good at cleaning…but I’m not. Last time I tried to vacuum…couldn’t find the thing. After I did…I worked for 15 minutes to find the on switch. Mr. Ellebud told me how to start the d…thing.

I haven’t been putting them in the dryer, I put 'em on the sweater drying rack I have set up most of the time anyway. :slight_smile: Yes, you just run your hands over the area. I have 2 of these:

http://shop.flylady.net/p/(MIT)

I’m feeling so much better!
My rules:

  1. Enjoy your surroundings. Clean what you see and bothers you the most. That’s priority.
  2. Tidying up can be super fast. Throw clutter in a bag then deal with it. If it stays in the bag long then throw it out.
  3. Every item needs a “home”.
  4. Get a good vacuum that’s lightweight and your H likes too.

Microfiber cloths are NOT all the same. I love the “as seen on TV ones” but even other brand names do not come close to cleaning as well.

If you see “particulates” in the air when vacuuming then your vacuum dust bag or vacuum needs changing.

What gouf said. A modern, true HEPA filter vac does not produce particulate in the air. If you see anything flying, it is either time for a new filter or a new vac! :slight_smile:

We solved the issue of vacuuming on multiple floors by getting a vacuum for every floor.

I did better–one of H’s Christmas presents was a vacuum! And he liked it!

Those of you with nothing on your kitchen counters…how do you do that?! Looking around my kitchen now, I’ve got canisters, rotating spice rack, knife block, utensil caddy, paper towel roll, toaster, and toaster oven all on my counter tops. Where do you put those items if not on your counter? I’d love the sleek look of no visible stuff, but I’m not sure if I want to reach into a cupboard every time I need a paper towel, or open a drawer for my favorite wooden spoon or pairing knife. I guess it’s about forming new habits.

Start with spoons and spatulas. How often do you use one? Only when you are cooking.

I ditched the ugly wood knife block and bought this aluminum one. It can be washed in soapy water if it gets dirty. And the grey matches the ss of the appliances. Oops. Here is the link:

https://www.evasolo.com/en/kitchen/kitchen-accessories/knife-blocks/angled/515280/