Thank you for taking the time to write your response. Full disclosure — I am the parent.
The recruitment process is 99% over for her sport. She could have very well gone through the recruitment just to get into the school, but she says that it would be a dishonest way of doing it. I am trying to keep the thread to facts only, but, yes, I believe it’s a mistake not to utilize her sports standing.
As for geography - doesn’t want to be too close to home. UMass Amherst is a few hours away and probably the closest she would consider. Doesn’t want West Coast. She wants to be a diplomat or be in diplomacy. Washington area makes most sense for it, but like you demonstrated in your example — it’s not a necessity. Congrats to your child!