Potential SUNY student, need help with Excelsior, picking a college without too much debt

Well the daughter would be responsible for all the loans, and that’s just way too much debt for an undergrad.

I don’t like this power play she’s displaying. What’s a parent supposed to do with such a declaration? Roll over and sign onto a huge amount of debt?

She goes to a high school that isn’t her “home” and manages fine with that.

What happened to the less debt choices?