“why did you even mention research as a form of competency? I feel that you take everything I say and just negate. Honestly the comments you make are not helpful more just hypercritical.”
Sometimes when you ask a question, especially of strangers, you can get an answer you don’t like. My experience is to politely say thank you, and take in or totally ignore the answer. I then move on. To in turn go on the offensive at the person who took their time to answer your question is rude.