<p>Mainstage…I totally agree that many kids decide on a school for ED and that it is their dream school without having visited or even explored any others. Believe me, I know…I can’t tell you how many families contact me with a child who ONLY wants to attend NYU/Tisch. Speaking as a parent, as much as my child wanted this school from a young age…at the time she really only knew of that school and I would never let my kid apply ED anywhere without having compared the school to others and have visited some others. My kid now attends NYU/Tisch but I am so glad that she arrived at that decision knowing what else was out there AND along the way, she discovered many other fine programs she could be happy at which is SO important given the odds of admissions and I find too many kids with a “X school or bust” kind of thinking when there definitely is more than one school where you can be happy and flourish. These kids just have not explored what else there is. ED is a good option but I would personally not let my kid do it until she had explored other schools (and visited a few) and then if she was ready to commit to one, I would have surely let her apply ED (she almost did but then decided not to do ED to Tisch). I’m glad she did the whole college exploration and arrived back at this same school rather than only looked at one school. Just to be clear, I am NOT against ED at all, but would be if the student had not looked into any other schools and had not visited any other schools before arriving at the decision to apply ED. </p>
<p>Also, I fear for those who only want one school in a situation where the admit rates are so very low that it can be a set up for great disappointment. Best to fall in love with many schools, even if you have favorites. I will admit that in Dec. of my D’s college admissions cycle, when several friends got into Tisch ED, she was knocking her head on the wall and saying, “if I had only done that, I could be done by now!” but came back to realizing why she had chosen to not do ED and to see what happened and explored many schools. </p>
<p>Also, I prefer to visit all options in junior year which is what I did with my oldest child. Howver, my MT kid decided midway through tenth grade that she wanted to graduate a year early which is nothing I had planned on and so her junior year was her application year and we had only seen one school in tenth grade (NYU)…let alone I was in the middle of return visits to my other D’s school as it was her senior year and she was deciding among her acceptances. We did get to see three more schools in early fall of junior year before any auditions were done. My D then could have chosen ED as she had seen a total of four schools and that would have been fine by me. We purposely planned these few visits early in junior year in case she wanted to do ED, since we had only seen one school in tenth grade. She went with RD and then we did the 8 campus auditions, four of which were first visits since we could not see them all in tenth grade (I thought we were gonna do that in junior year but who knew she’d be graduating in junior year?? ) In any case, my D’s process was a little different as she was applying as a junior in HS to college and was actually still 15 when making this decision.</p>