Preppy colleges for slightly above average student

Hi! I was thinking of a school that was probably around an enrollment of 3k upwards. I definitely don’t mind a school having a good amount of people. I actually have been to Trinity for a field hockey tournament and I did feel pretty similarly after driving around to try and find somewhere to eat. My parents are also planning on getting me an apartment ( or house) in college and being alone there would definitely have me definitely feeling a little worried.