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I am afraid of not being respected, being ridiculed, being called “sexist” or any other “-ist” or “phobe”, having issues with HR for not being able to remember 30 ever-changing pronouns and (probably) making some unfortunate mistake in the society that is ZERO tolerant to people making mistakes, even the most minor.
All these issues are too radioactive. I am a human being and I want to be safe.
Choose ONE pronoun and stick with it. Update English grammar, retype the books, and lets live happily together.