Sorry to LOL, but thought “irritation” meant, uh, irritation at the biopsy site, not irritation with bureaucracy/the hassle :B
I have a friend with prostate cancer metastasized to bone cancer. Not a good prognosis. I guess you just have to weigh your options and decide which is worse. (by the way, the guy was very active, biking, jogging, the dx was out of the blue)
I do think that patients should have some choice to go non-nvasive (would an ultrasound or MRI work at all?) instead of invasive after multiple tests.
PSA levels, yeah, the jury is out on “saves lives to test for them” vs. “a waste of time, too many false positives”. Women go through lump tribulations a lot too though, between fibrocystic breasts and having lumps biopsied and negative, and back and forth for some.
Best of luck, and do your best. Most of us have to deal with medical stuff at some point, and “an educated consumer is our best customer” (forget if that was from a clothing store). I agree with pressure if you know your doctor well - my spouse almost had his thyroid removed due to cancer because he was trusting our family ENT we had known for years, and we got a second opinion from MSK and they said no cancer, but are following him up. The bummer was him going back to the ENT for something else, and my spouse mentioned “yeah, I don’t have cancer per MSK” and the ENT was like “that’s good” as opposed to asking more about how to avoid serious surgery (and lifetime repercussions of thyroid removal) for others.
And BTW, another friend who had lung cancer pretty bad got a phone call about the biopsy results in the car driving home from the hospital - it’s a generalization, but if results aren’t very quick, they are usually good. She didn’t even know she had cancer and went in for a needle biopsy.
Very quick phone call after the test, well, take a deep breath before you answer the phone.