<p>Thank you for the helpful response. Yes, I agree - in the end it comes down to fit/culture. A very hard thing to asses in a short time. My daughter is very sensitive so one bad night with an accidentally mismatched young woman can break it and one great night with an equally accidental perfect match up can make it. It can be hard to see beyond that one person for her. I keep trying to provide her with other perspectives so that maybe culture can shine through. So I appreciate your experiences.</p>