<p>You need to contact a financial aid officer at one of the schools you’re applying to and discuss the situation. My guess is that no, there’s no other way, and it’s not “fine” if she doesn’t deduct you on this year’s taxes. For financial aid purposes, you will still be considered a dependent of your mother unless you meet the FAFSA requirements for being an independent student. The process is supposed to be complicated and long; otherwise everyone would do it.</p>
<p>Are you saying that your grandparents are now supporting you completely on their SSI income?</p>