Once more…this is college dependent. Read my post above.
Also, what your husband got for grad school has zero bearing on what your child might get. For example, the Ivies don’t give a nickel of merit aid to students for undergrad. It’s all need based aid which you need to qualify for.
At places that do not award merit aid scholarships, you can ask until the cows come home, and you still won’t get merit aid.
Really…each college website has information about financial aid and scholarships. I would strongly suggest you start reading those for colleges of interest.