Real estate experts -should we invest $5k in backyard landscaping/patio - plan to sell in 3 to 4 yrs

I would recommend that you do it. $5000 is a small backyard project and I would imagine that anyone interested in purchasing your home would expect at least a small patio and not have to have their bbq sit on the grass. I second having a professional do it, especially if you have erosion issue.