Call me old-fashioned and call me naive, but the best we can do as parents is try to teach our kids to make good decisions in life. Once they leave the nest, they are ADULTS, our job is (nearly) done. At that point, the only person responsible for their behavior is them. You can blame the school, you can blame the municipality, you can blame the frat or sorority, you can blame their friends, but the only one truly responsible is them. I will be sending my S out into the wild in a few months and I pray every day that we’ve done a good job teaching him to make good decisions in life. Time will tell.