Reed College vs. Oberlin

<p>Hey, i’m applying to oberlin this year. I know this is way off-topic, but i don’t feel like starting a new thread:
I’m also not sure how to put this without sounding like a bigot: i know oberlin has a very large gay community, and i have absolutely no problem with gay people. but exactly how…“gay” is everyone? i mean, is everyone like carson kressley, or are many of them not so flamboyent seeming? i don’t think it will really influence my decision either way, but i’d still like to get an idea.</p>