GFG is there not an option to somehow call a truce on this … or just get someone to help your daughter pass the dang lab quiz. It is not rocket science, or are they building rockets in chem lab ?
Get your daughter to study the material and stop discussing fair-vs-unfair …at home or at school.
If you lock in a position, you will get gobble-de-gook out of the teachers you are picking on.
My guess is the pre-lab drama will end in exactly one more week … more tiger parents complaining … teacher and science supervisor will back down.
If this is really an IEP issue … I dunno how I stand on that. If we need to give extra time to AP class students … how does that affect the other 16 students … and is that fair ? How about the slightly less brilliant but not disabled child, should they have the AP spot ? Is this the best placement … honestly, with all the issues you present just here
I don’t think so …
Similarly, my student does not want / need less homework because your kid wants to play a sport 2-3 hours a night plus weekends.
GFG may just not be a great poster child for the issues in some NJ schools …
Re placement in 4th grade or 6th grade …
Only way that it is possible for every kid who needs acceleration to get it is to have enough spots and enough qualified teachers, in math and also in teaching of gifted children, to allow both the prepped and the promising but not prepped kids to enter … and maybe even a few parent suggested students. At that point, if the student cannot succeed at this level, the option is to step down a level, which fortunately should be easy … and not shameful.
I can elaborate … but I won’t.
Testing is a reasonable tool and is one way to remove any teacher biases from the selection process. If a student tests well, they should be allowed to take the class, just like the kids who has been shouting out the answers to in-class work for 2 years or the one whose eyes light up in class. Math ability does not correlate that well to either tests or class performance or class engagement or introvert vs extrovert.
Teachers that are dealing with or selecting students for GT type placements also need training in how to spot GT students AND maybe germane to all the talk about hours of busy work … .how to really enrich a program so it serves GT students (and the older AP crowd). Do we give them 3 essays a week, or teach them to write a good essay through concept development, pre-writing, drafts, editing, research …
Do we want our kids to get a 5 on the AP test or learn how to write ? What counts more, the AP test or the college essay (and a good essay from a kid that is really engaged in something and can write well … could be powerful).
Do we want kids to get a 5 on AP Calc BC in 8th grade, or do we want to build a mathematician ?
Some of the busy-work and time issues are related to the overemphasis on tests that is taking over education, the no-child-left-behind = no-child-not-tested-on-material-that-has-been-stuffed-into-them-for-9-months philosophy.
Good assignments for GT students may take time . but they are engaging.
I am somehow really confused by talk that fairness somehow involves people not being able to hire tutors or take summer classes or take MIT openware courses (and if MIT is OK, so is summer school) or heck buying a chemistry for dummies book.
Honestly, the world is full of people of all ilks, some work hard, some hire tutors, some are just gifted in some skill set, some just have a high tolerance for rote learning …
some are recruit-able athletes … I bet there was a lot of money and time and even school money invested there too …
Do we have to lower everyone’s challenges so no one feels stressed out ?
Does Stanford limit difficulty of their students classes ? Do people feel bad about getting a B or C because their fellow students spent all night in the library or hired a tutor or took the class in HS …
Should your child have to kick the ball to the sidelines so my child feels like they belong on varsity soccer ?
Will your employer not stress you out or point out that your colleague is doing better work ? Is this process always fair ?
Fairness is a dangerous concept to use as a barometer for whether a school is doing its job or for life in general.
Resilience is an important skill - and even related to the lab quiz - so is getting up the nerve to ask the teacher to let you take the quiz again …