<p>It’s ludicrous to suggest that the admissions committee at Princeton, or Harvard, or Yale, or practically anywhere sits around and applies an Asian quota, or does such near-relatives of that as compare Asian students only to other Asian students or dismiss a student’s ECs as “typically Asian”. I firmly believe that you could never get everyone in the room to go along with that; the whistle would get blown before the next bathroom break. For that reason, I doubt the OCR will find any discrimination at Princeton. I have also said in the past that my strong guess is that Asians are proportionately (or better) represented in students admitted from the applicant pools to which they belong as a practical matter. That is, if Asians make up 35% of the pool of non-legacy science-focused applicants, they probably make up 35% or more of that type of kid accepted.</p>
<p>But in the various discussions on CC in the past month, I have seen two examples of some real cultural misunderstanding involving ethnic Chinese students that, while subtle, could easily affect the admission prospects of Asian students at the margin.</p>
<p>The first was when a father was trumpeting his daughter’s ECs, and the centerpiece for him was the daughter helping her mother start and run a business. Many posters here cautioned him to play that down because admissions officers look askance at parent-generated activities and jobs in family businesses (with exceptions, I presume, if you are Lachlan Murdoch, Edgar Bronfman, Jr., Brian Roberts, or Abigail Johnson). He was taken aback by that; for him, working with her mother had shown his daughter’s loyalty and economic realism, and had involved much more effort and initiative than having just any old job. The daughter had been a real participant in the entrepreneurial enterprise. I thought this was an interesting example of the different weights Chinese culture and American elitist culture accord to filial piety vs. independence. Both cultures value both to some extent, but with radically different weights. If admissions officers in fact responded the way people here thought they would (or if some of them did), and stuck the applicant in the same pile as kids whose “job” was to update the web-page graphics of Dad’s law firm, that would probably be a misperception of who that girl is. Or if the poster took the advice he got here and soft-pedaled that aspect of his daughter’s record, that would distort the picture, too.</p>
<p>The second was a girl with great grades, scores, etc., one of whose main leadership activities had been to start a Gay-Straight Alliance chapter at her school. Her parents were upset by that and wanted her to leave it off her applications altogether. The CC Parents Chorus pretty much thought it was a very positive admissions factor, and might make her a shoe-in at Wesleyan (which, unfortunately, was not on her list – she had thought about it, but she said, “After all, I’m Chinese.”) If her parents had prevailed on her not to get involved with GSA, or to leave it off her application, I think her application would have looked much weaker than it will. But, at the same time, it was clear the family had an “Ivy or bust” mentality (specifically, Ivy or SUNY-Binghamton), and were not even thinking of fabulous colleges where the kid would be a great fit.</p>
<p>What I take away from these anecdotes is that there’s some work for everyone to do. On the dominant-culture side, we need to remember that other cultures may weight values like “independence” differently, or may express the qualities we value as “independence” differently. We also need to remember that people who are somewhat outside the dominant-culture mainstream may not be totally clued in to how best to market themselves in dominant-culture terms. So you have to look more carefully to see the real kid behind an application. At the same time, it’s fairly clear that many (not all) Asian families vastly overvalue some schools relative to others, and thus close off a pressure-valve that’s tremendously important to the rest of us with academically ambitious kids. Many (not all) Asian families would also do well to educate themselves better about what the schools they like really value – which includes, as mini points out, 300-lb. left tackles – so that their children can do a better job of looking like the kinds of people those schools want.</p>