As disappointing as it may be to come to the conclusion that folks who “didn’t work as hard” as you achieved the same outcome, this is a very important lesson to learn in life. Do you think it will change when you enter the real world? I hate to break it to you, but it happens all the time. Jobs you’re more than qualified for will go to the boss’s college roommate’s kid or the woman with the longer legs. All you can do is seek out those employers who hire based on merit and never look back.
Temple (like Alabama and a handful of others) offers tremendous merit money to top students, so there will be many, many students with profiles similar to yours who will be your peers, classmates and friends should you choose to go there. The kids at Temple from your school who were slackers or underachievers, in all likelihood, are full pay. Console yourself with that knowledge! 
And Spelman is a school with a lot of name-brand recognition. If you can afford it, I would think the sky would be your limit.