<p>I also haven’t been in the situation, but knew some people that were. Of all the people I know who tried to do it, only two lasted past the first year.
-One of those two is kinda creepy. They talked on the phone for hours most days all year.
-The other wasn’t as obsessive. We Chicago folks only knew of the relationship because we asked about a screensaver picture. </p>
<p>If you want to try it, give each other some space. Don’t talk on the phone three hours a day. If you still want to be together when you go back home for holidays, summer, etc., great. If not, then don’t hold onto it just because it was great before you went to college. The guy from the non-obsessive relationship is now engaged, so it seems to have worked out.</p>