<p>I think you are all right. She could do better with a bit of work and it might make a difference, but it would come at a cost. Only she can figure out if it is “worth it.” DH and I decided to suggest that she spend her time working on her courses this semester. She has a difficult batch of classes, plus her sports, ECs and apps. These should be her priority, not polishing an already bright apple.</p>
<p>I have to admit (but not to her) that I am (a little bit) disappointed and think it might reduce her chances at Swarthmore somewhat. But life is too short and this kid has worked–and is working–hard enough already. My suggestion to her will be to let it go and be very proud of what she has accomplished already. She is a really nice kid and doesn’t need pressure from her overly-anxious parents!</p>