<p>Swarthmore takes a clear stance that college is about young adults leaving the nest and finding their own way in the world. This message is consistent and explicit in the parents’ orientation sessions.</p>
<p>They value parent interest in the school, but really discourage “hovering”, especially when it comes to decisions students should be making for themselves. For example, during orientation, they schedule a parents tour at precisely the time roommates are meeting and unpacking. The stated reason: to get mom and dad out of the dorm and let the kids make their own decisions about where to put their desks.</p>
<p>With that in mind, I think it is best for parents to make themselves scarce during Ride the Tide. Your plan seems like a good one. Show up on Friday and spend some time on your own doing the parents session and walking around the campus on the garden tour. Don’t miss the ampitheater, the Science Center coffee bar, the Rose Garden, and the Scott Arboretum.</p>