@geyirib, glad to hear that things ended up better than you were fearing. As for help, it’s hard because you have so much detail in your posts. Could you answer, in brief one sentence answers, the questions in austinmshauri’s post?
Also, now that you are not failing out, it looks as if you are specifically looking for: “applying to another Catholic School that has the same 3:2 program (which I was also accepted to before) as a freshman and transferring credits” what program is that specifically? Is this what you want to search for?
As for general advice, I wonder if you should focus first on mental health and your diagnoses. It sounds as if the Asperger’s and ADHD are still holding you back from the academic performance that you seem capable of. Are you working with your doctor on these? Also, as you look at schools to move to, this should be an important factor in your decision, maybe looking for schools that have proven strengths supporting students with these diagnoses.
Not every student is a match for MIT or highly selective schools (neither of mine were), and that’s OK. What is important is to find a school that matches you…your strengths, your challenges and your interests (and your finances and any family location considerations).