<p>I’m a recent college graduate (23 years old) living with three roommates here in NYC and I completely disagree with your actions. You basically asked your roommate for her opinion and chose to ignore it, and then you come to this board and ignore any contrary viewpoints and bash those people for being “bitter” when really the advice is geared towards helping you not make decisions that render you an empathy-devoid, selfish roommate.</p>
<p>You seemed to also ignore the earlier posts that explained what it means to have the “right” to overnight guests and how those rights are split between people sharing a space. If you’re going to do what you want anyway, then why did you bother asking your roommate for her opinion and why did you bother making this thread? </p>
<p>At any rate, it’s clear you really don’t respect your roommate and will put her in an uncomfortable position for your convenience. Putting up a curtain is better than nothing, but she knows nothing about your boyfriend and may not feel safe being in the same room as a male stranger when sleeping. What you’re pushing forth is disrespect for your roommate, a lack of empathy, and immaturity.</p>