<p>When I was at MHC, a room mate always trumped the boyfriend staying over too much. The res. life was able to handle this in effective ways with comprimise, instead of the student having to handle it on her own. It IS a WOMEN’S college, after all, and some seek that for the additional comfort of being able to not worry about who sees you in pajamas, bad hair days, in sickness, etc!</p>