Miami University of Oxford Ohio is an academic safety for you. You would qualify for possible merit to bring the cost down to just over $40,000 a year. Is that affordable for your family?
SUNY Geneseo is an excellent school that you would likely gain acceptance to. It is approximately $37,000 (before any scholarship) for OOS students. Is that affordable?
I believe you have a good chance of acceptance to the University of Rochester. Cost of attendance is about $86,000 a year without merit. Would your parents pay that amount?
Is there an instate option that meets your criteria? I would begin there.