Say it here cause you can't say it directly- the get it off your chest thread (Part 1)

None of this is worth it anymore.

Home – alone!! – at last!

Sometimes I just want to move away to a remote and random location all by myself

You are an @ss. Your parents taught you nothing about communicating like a human being. You are cruel and selfish.

Apparently that sofa is so ugly even the agency collecting furniture for refugees won’t take it.

My HS D is with my ex over the summer. He took her to get a haircut at his girlfriend’s hairdresser, out of the hairdresser’s home. It was $400!!! And my ex had my D pay for it with MY credit card, that my D had since she went to him directly from a school trip. THEN they all went out to dinner with the hairdresser, because they are all such friends. Really, charge a friend $400?! Oh, that’s right, the friend wasn’t charged, I was! Guess what just got cancelled tonight?

I don’t know which is more frustrating, Google or Verizon. google told son they would not replace his 6 month old phone that the screen just “blacked out on.” I got involved, and they agreed to either have him send his phone in, and they would send him a new one, or he could try the Verizon store. Verizon agreed to ship him a refurbished phone BEFORE sending his back, so he took that option. Now we have spent hours, literally, again, trying to get this phone to work. I had to email him what the Verizon person said, so he could try it. Eventually they just told him they couldn’t help him and he should get a new SIM card. Poor kid. He’s working two internships, and was supposed to be in bed early. Stayed up 2 extra hours, for nothing. Just had to rant. Thanks for listening:(

NO NO NO I really did not want you to be the person/house that we next meet. I already know how much
I am going to hate it. Please go away so I can have a new group of friends!
Your house is going to be cluttered and dirty. Just know.

Immunosuppresants s_______, okay stink.

Stop posting every frigging thing on FB. Yes, you are awesome. You are spending time with your parents. You love them. They are cute. You are awesome for being with them. Everyone is telling you who great you are for being such a wonderful daughter. Meanwhile, your brother and I are the ones who make it all possible for you.

They weren’t gifts, they were loans. You know that. Stop trying to involve others in this.
And another thing - it was the adults for most of the time. He would have been bored to tears.

I cannot believe your put one single post of your S’s wedding on Facebook and then the next day put a dozen about yourself and a concert your attended. When your favorite S gets married in India in November you will put 100’s–just who you are. And you do not even realize we see who you really are…

I love architects, ha. You accuse me of looking for “shortcuts” by asking for verification of a dimension. Why in the world would that be a shortcut when it takes you weeks to respond? Then there is the mason who is chopping two inches off the concrete panels I detailed. Really?? You’re eliminating the part that is connected to the building. How are you going to support those panels? Sigh. It’s a miracle any building ever gets constructed.

Think! Don’t be so eager to be supportive that you blatantly mislead. If you really care about that kid, provide the right info. Your desire to pat him on the head and throw hugs won’t get him closer to is goal.

When you spend that much on leather furniture, yeah, sorry, I expect it to be in better shape than it is.

Seriously hard to understand how you did what you chose to do. So
profoundly self absorbed. On a very deep level you just do not get it.

Ha! I’m going to keep messing with you until you tell me what I want to know, good, bad or indifferent. I don’t care anymore. I just want to know.

Hang in there. You’re too smart and too good at what you do to be discouraged. It’s not you; it’s them. And hopefully with this new approach, you’ll find a path forward.

You may have won every battle, yet lost the war. After decades of doing exactly what appeals to you in the moment, while disregarding others, you are lonely…Can’t say I’m surprised.

So much for the theme of this thread. I just took what I said here and said it to him. I hope it’s helpful.