@Lbelle43 yeah im in the groupme chats!! at first i thought i was being too introverted so i tried talking and ‘going with the flow’ and then i realised that some conversations were just on another level and i felt alien and uncomfortable… and thank you so much, im definitely less scared of smith now!!! i dont really know any smithies personally so the fb introductory posts and groupme chats just really swamped my mind and made me feel inadequate… im going to go back to chilling now lol