You have several threads on this forum regarding financial aid.
In one, you say the most you can pay is $30,000 a year…but you also allude to having a $50,000 EFC…and your kid applied to and got accepted at OOS publics in engineering…as well as an instate one she doesn’t want to attend for some odd reason.
I would suggest you read this thread…
This other poster has the same question as you. I think you should at least look at the responses on that thread.