I definitely looked into some more selective schools, but I just don’t think I should aim that high for ED1
Follow your gut…
Have you actually been to the schools? You should not apply ED where you haven’t been, can’t afford if you’re not sure, and you’re not gung ho about.
There’s a zillion schools out there solid for psych and for pre-med and many will be great for you. And getting in RD is very very possible.
If you’re not feeling it, then don’t apply ED. If it ends up not being Tufts but Trinity you’ll be fine.
Maybe you want a bigger public college with an Honors Program, etc. Yes, Boston is a great college town but there are other nearby schools and / or you can always live there later or in summers, etc.
Slow down would be my suggestion.
Visit campuses. Apply to places you think can work but don’t bind yourself - and open up your search to other types of schools.
Good luck.