Not trying to come across as nit-picky so please don’t take my post that way but Ursinus isn’t really right outside of Philly. It’s about 30 miles NW of Philly without easy access to the city unless you have a car. Even then the drive can take close to an hour depending on the time of day. Villanova and Swarthmore would be suburban schools that are closer to the city with much easier access.
Just don’t want people to think it is close by. It is a great little school, though! Kind of like a hidden gem.
No, that is a good clarification. By my standards, that still counts as reasonably close, but you are right it is not as close and convenient as, say, the Main Line LACs.
WashU is the premier private university in St. Louis. Its close academic peer group – perhaps coincidentally – are also mostly in cities and enjoy similar stature:
Rice - Houston
Vanderbilt - Nashville
Emory - Atlanta
Carnegie Mellon - Pittsburgh
Georgetown - Washington, DC
Notre Dame - South Bend (outlier)
With respect to other private schools with strong academics but which are less selective, many good examples have been listed.
Just to clarify, it is the STEM / pre-med students who think WashU is not that collaborative? I know someone applying who thinks the same thing as the OP and wants to avoid a school with a pressure cooker reputation (eg like Cornell) and thought WashU was a good fit on the challenging but collaborative front.
I want to second this advice, and also note different honors programs/colleges come in different flavors, with some being more robust than others. I think the ones where they actually are their own academic unit with their own classes (not necessarily full majors, but for a lot of the core/gen ed stuff), sometimes even with their own buildings, can perhaps have a lot of the feel the OP’s kid is looking for.
I know they are looking at North Carolina honors programs, but I know Clemson and South Carolina both have really well-regarded Honors programs. There have been a lot of mentions of William & Mary as a very WashUesque college to begin with, and then they also have the Monroe Scholars program. Again, just some suggestions proximate to North Carolina to maybe check out.
My kid is a current WashU senior. The experience has been extremely collaborative and not “pressure cooker” in any way. This is in the business school, but the same is true of the pre-meds. Several friends have relatives at Cornell, and WashU is NOT at all that type of high stress environment.