I’m not disagreeing with you. I’m not talking about people with millions in the bank, whether from trust funds or who did FIRE.
I’m talking about a family where there are two working adults who have a household income of $200k/year, have $100k in an emergency fund, $50k for health care deductibles and car replacements, and a house (for purposes of this discussion, we’ll say a median-priced house which is about $400k or so). And since this is a more financially-conservative family, let’s say they have $100k in college savings.
Some places advertise free tuition for families with $200k in income and typical assets. The family above would not qualify because their assets are “atypical.” But if there was a family that earned $200k/year and spent every dime on “wants,” that family would qualify for free tuition.
This is where the offers from places like Whitman or Wheaton or wherever, come into play. Those two families (neither of which has millions in the bank) would both pay the same amount of money. The more fiscally-conservative family would be paying most of their costs out of the college savings that they had put aside in the previous years while the family that was more focused on “wants” would be paying it out of their annual income.
Whether you agree or disagree with that type of policy, it seems as though that’s what some of these colleges are heading toward.