<p>Rhodes is co-ed, and it is in a fairly safe neighborhood. I would pick a few reaches as well. Rice and Vanderbilt have most of what you want, as does Davidson. While I do not like the school myself, you could look at Emory and see what you think (it is very artistic, which could be good or bad depending on you). What about South Carolina, or is the football going to be too big of a deal there?</p>