Here is the OP’s original post:
“My family is in a difficult financial situation where EFC is 40k higher than our absolute maximum to pay for college. At this point, I’m looking for schools with similar approaches to learning (discussion, analysis, individuality) as UChicago that are far far cheaper, with good merit aid opportunities. I also place a high value on diversity.”
The OP he is looking for recommendations outside of Uchicago. Telling her/him that a U Chicago education is ** irreplaceable ** and that you only live once, is an irresponsible response to the context of the OP’s situation.
UChicago has a price and is replaceable. College is not a dream, it’s a wonderful place where you grow and learn and get an education. There are many excellent choices wiithin the OPs affordability. Pick the one that is the best fit.