I’m hoping @blossom sees this comment. Blossom has very sage advice about what to do in these situations.
I will add, your situation sounds more complicated than most as you described above. So a couple of suggestions:
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Whittle down the list of possible college choices so you don’t have to run 100 NPCs.
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Have a couple of colleges on the list that offer high probability of merit aid. If your daughter has the stats for acceptance into a meets full need for all college, she likely could garner great merit aid elsewhere. You all need to keep an open mind about this.
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I hope you are working with an impartial someone to help you sort out the business/personal asset issues you have.