@Bridgenail you know a lot about voice. I do not, and my post was intended more as a question than an opinion, so sorry if it came off as an opinion.
I would worry that the daughter would have to do a required curriculum (including a lot of language classes) that might not fit her needs. I am glad you posted because you know this landscape.
I am curious what you think about attending an LAC for a BA and doing some of the extracurricular/gigging activities at one of those, without a BM program on campus.