<p>I’m sure that this can’t be said for everyone, but my freshman dorm was very close-knit. Really, people did risque stuff, but no one did anything that would seriously put another dorm mate in distress. All of the stuff was voluntary and in good fun, and even though our secret snowflake probably wasn’t as scandalous as some of the dorms, everyone who participated still seemed to enjoy it. If you’re not comfortable with it, opt out. It’s that easy.</p>