Serious question: Why are kids freaking out over grades?

My kid had 3.9 gpa with tough courses and took certain courses he didn’t think he would like just to find out if he liked the area, not with a goal of getting perfect gpa. I am saying don’t get into a mental frame of thinking you need perfect grades. I thought 3.9 gpa was perfectly fine to apply to the very top schools. It wasn’t going to be his gpa that was going to determine his rejection or denial.