<p>Hunt, I would respectfully disagree. I have read articles that advance the argument that many “Christian” students say they agree with such rules but that their behavior is different, i.e. similar to that on any campus, perhaps with some difference in quantity but not in kind. In the end, it is up to the individual. </p>
<p>The OP’s D apparently would choose not to behave like her roommate. If that is her choice, fine. It’s her business and perfectly respectful. If she hasn’t, the OP has other problems related to control and her own belief systems. I doubt changing institutions would provide greater control. </p>
<p>I am worried about this, too, I do not mean to sound flippant. But we are going to talk to our D and let her go, equipped with condoms.</p>