<p>kkmama, to provide you with a little clarity - we live in So. California and our d attended a public school here in Orange County for four years. Two of her best friends are Muslim, we have many friends from various ethnic and religious backgrounds. It may also be helpful to note that we are and have been since she was young completely open about sex with her. The open dialogue and conversations have been going on for years - yes, you can wear string bikinis to the beach in the summer, have many partier friends, sexually active friends, friends with various sexual orientation and still choose abstinence and or “conservative” sexual behavior based on your Christian (or other) faith. My post is for those who are getting ready to shell out $50 k plus for private institutions that you may believe to be faith-based. KKmama, we do not live under a rock - young adults can choose whatever path they desire - our daughter has chosen hers - and yes she has been “sexiled” (locked out of room while her roommate has various “guests”.) Post was simply a gentle suggestion to those going through the app process with their young adults, and avoid what we missed.</p>