@sweetest: Welcome to the Brave New World of college admissions. Here is an article that I have found helpful in putting all this into perspective: https://www.nytimes.com/2015/03/15/opinion/sunday/frank-bruni-how-to-survive-the-college-admissions-madness.html?rref=collection%2Fcolumn%2Ffrank-bruni&_r=0. This is excerpted from Frank Bruni’s book titled, “Where You Go Is Not Who You’ll Be” – which says it all, in my opinion.
It seems that your daughter has a lot going for her; and I’m sure that she will do well wherever she lands.